👋🏼 Hi, I’m Melanie,

...and I spent the majority of my late teens/early twenties sabotaging my romantic relationships because I fixated on small problems (or what I perceived to be problems) rather than allowing myself to enjoy the good.

I tried to control things that were out of my control- like the my partner would text me or his mood.

I took everything incredibly personally and looked for every sign that I could find that he wasn’t that into me. I nitpicked and found problems everywhere.

I mean EVERYWHERE. A sigh, not laughing at a joke I made, not texting me as soon as he was off of work.
I was always, always on the defense and ready to argue about how my needs were not being met.

I rarely thought about how I was meeting my own needs, or his for that matter.

I was never fully present. I was focused only on what I wanted to change. I wasn't appreciative of the ways he was loving me and showing up for the relationship.

Essentially, I was making myself and my partner miserable.

I was limiting my enjoyment, my pleasure, and the love that others were trying to give me.

Does this sound like you?

If it does, you are not alone. I have coached many women who feel and have experienced the same thing.
See what they have to say after working with me 👇🏼

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